Return of the Non Resident Indian
Ancient Greek playwright Aristophanes (446 BCE) once said “A man’s homeland is wherever he prospers”. Recently I have been thinking about my homeland a lot. I am not alone. Millions of Indians including many of my friends are seriously considering winding up whatever they are doing and heading back to India. This is a tough decision to say the least particularly if family members and children are involved.
I dislike the word Non Resident Indian (NRI). We do not use the term Non Resident Malayalee to describe a person from Kerala (who has family and property in Kerala) but lives in other parts of the country. But whether I like it or not I am an NRI. NRI’s come in all different shapes and forms. I left India in the early nineties and came to the United States to do my Master’s degree. I never went back.
I always ponder about why I decided to come to the United States in the first place. My family was very well off by Indian standards and I was not particularly interested in doing a Master’s degree. I think to some extent it was peer pressure. I was very fortunate to attend a prestigious engineering school and it was very common those days for most of the graduating class in such institutions to pack their bags and get on a plane to the United States a few weeks after graduation.
I really did not think about the long term consequences of that decision. It was almost as if it was the normal thing to do (almost 35 of the 43 member graduating class left for the US within the first year. Thanks to the wonder called Facebook many of us are back in touch after almost 20 years). I came, I saw, I conquered but now I want to go back!! I think I know what Alexander was going through after he captured India 2300 years ago!!
I have always maintained my contact with India. I have visited India on numerous occasions and enjoyed every one of them (except the one time when I had to drop everything and rush to India upon learning that my father had passed away). The diversity of India, the chaos of everyday life, the languages and culture, the co-existence of the old and new are some of the things that fascinated me even when I was in India and still does today.
I believe that I am living in a time capsule. When I left, India was trying to deal with the Bofors scandal and the financial meltdown (Prime Minister Narasimha Rao had just shipped most of India’s gold reserve to the Bank of England as collateral for new loans). The country was trying to get some sort of recognition from the West after ending up on the losing side of the cold war.
Today the British Prime Minster is in India to save his own country!! India’s foreign exchange reserve is one of the largest in the world. Pessimism has been replaced by optimism and to an extent over confidence. A generation that preached “unity in diversity” has now been replaced by a generation that believes in “my way or the highway”.
Why do Indians want to return to India now? Actually Indians have always returned to India in the past after living lengthy periods of times abroad. But the number of people leaving was always greater than the number of people returning. But this is beginning to change. Some people get old and feel that they prefer to retire in India than in the West, others might want to invest their savings and use the interest income and live a comfortable retired life and finally the permanent residency (Green Card) and citizenship requirements are getting tougher and the waiting periods are getting longer so some of the newer immigrants would rather go home than wait.
But there are other reasons as well. Although many Indians are returning to India it does not mean that they are leaving “leaving” their adopted nations. Many returning NRI’s still hold on to their immigration status (citizenship or green card), they may have bank accounts, houses and investments outside of India, bank accounts in India in foreign currency and they still might travel frequently between India and their other “home” country. All this is possible because of the tremendous changes in Indian law in the past 14 years. Indians no longer have to choose.
The loosening of the law has benefits for the NRI and for India. The remittances from NRI’s to India are rapidly growing (NRI remittance is India’s single biggest source of foreign exchange. The remittances every year is larger than India’s total IT exports and is larger than India’s total trade with the United States). Remittance from Chinese immigrants and returning Chinese immigrants propelled the Chinese economy in the 1990’s). India is copying the same model.
What is in store for people like me when we return? Will India accept us as one of its own? Can we make a positive impact on the nation? Will we be happy in the end?
“Home is not where you live but where they understand you“ – Christian Morgenstern
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Happiness is a relative term…and it depends on you and not where you are.
but one thing is certain – there is not a single boring moment in India!
I actually love the chaos of India. The orderly life of the West can get a little boring after a while.
This is like part 2 of your other blog ‘Reasons I love India’.. The main reason you want to go back is thw warmth, compassion and dignity amid chaos that you don’t get abroad.
You are right Ram.
I didn’t read your “Reasons I love India”. Recently there was an article in the “The Hindu” about many NRIs from AP returning back home. the live style which you get in west, which you are not getting here is making you to live there?. But i think here too there are more opportunities and pays more nowadays…To be honest i wont agree with those who does all their education here, and their ultimate aim is settle abroad. quite a long back an indian channel interviewed “Indira Nooyi” when the anchor asked whether you consider ever returning to India, she replied…”I owe lot to America”. She did here graduation in MCC, chennai and here MBA, in IIM,kolkatta :(.
I am glad still you love/long for India.
Best wishes
Thank you for your feedback Jaya. I read the article that you are talking about.
I do not think it is the life style. I came just as television and cable TV were becoming “national”. I did not have enough information about the life style of the West to really make a comparison then. I just came because that was what most of my classmates in Engineering college were doing.
I understand the concern you have about people like me who complete their education and then pack their bags and get out of India. Most of us understand the enormous cost that India has spent in educating us and appreciate it. But there are long term returns for India. The total inflow of capital from Non Resident Indians (NRI) for the year 2008 to India was $52 billion (larger than India’s IT export for the year). India is the biggest recipient of remittances in the world. If you are interested you can read my article about NRI remittance to India.
All my Indian friends love and long for India. Only few of us will have the courage to admit it (I have quite a number of friends from Tamil Nadu. We meet, have a few drinks and listen to old Tamil songs on YouTube via the iPhone!!).
The fact is the life of a first generation immigrant anywhere in the world is extremely difficult. I have stories and stories to tell. But that’s another story!!
I think most of the people go abroad as a tradition or due to peer pressure..I graduated from one of the most pretigious institutions in India and once our final year of engineering was over,most of them went abroad for doing masters.very lately some of my friends were telling me that they are not finding it as great.They told that the fancy feeling being abroad is gone and should have done it in IIMs or IITs itself.
But I believe that today being abroad or being in India is more or less the same.
Howmuch ever we crib and blame about the bad inside of our country,end of the day its “Mera Bharat Mahan”..
Pinne nammude karyam paranjal,poochaye pole aanu..evide poyalum nammal ennum oru pole :) :)
Hello Bhavia,
If you compare certain elements then being abroad or being in India is the same today. Job opportunities and salary are some examples. But there are a lot of things that one can learn from studying or living in countries like the US that you probably cannot by being in India as of now.
Your point about IIT and IIM is well taken. But unless you are a real nerd most people cannot get into these institutions. So may be increasing the seats in such institutions and opening more institutions may prevent the brain drain to some extent.
Appam .. nan oru poocha kutty anu elle .. puli anunthanu vijarichu kondirunthatu :)